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This is the short version of #WhyIStayed and #WhyILeft. I know what it’s like to be broken down to bits and pieces. Being able to stand up and say I have rebuilt is humbling. It wasn’t easy…

This describes what happened to me perfectly. There are days when I believe I deserved everything that happened to me just because that’s how it is. It took a long time for me to stop blaming myself (even though i still do somedays). And when I have days where I have a happy memory, I feel sick to my stomach that I feel that way. One tiny, happy moment is not worth all the lies, broken promises, emotional, verbal, and physical abuse that will never stop. Your happiness comes first. ALWAYS. Don’t let anyone or society tell you different. I know I deserve the best and to be happy. I’m glad I got the courage, walked away and learned that I shouldn’t be scared and put down and have to obey to my boyfriend because I am a female. I am the only one who can make decisions for myself and I will never stay again. #whyIstayed

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